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Are Westerners built for marriage? 

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12 Kor 2021

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WolfinFlux
WolfinFlux 20 ditë më parë
Brotha I've been together with my wife for 7 years. We got married 3 years ago. We almost....and I mean almost broke up...im.a bit more stubborn guys and gals, so she had to convince me a bit more, but boy am I glad that she did...7 years thus far and I can see it going for 30 years+ now. Marriage is hard af. If it isn't, then "most" likely one or both parties aren't speaking their minds and it will end eventually. My wife and I talked it out and set it all out there. I love that woman and I'd take a bullet for her in a heartbeat. I ain't perfect, but I try
EvolvedTactics
EvolvedTactics 4 orë më parë
Respect to you and your wife my friend. Blessings to you.
Aisme Dddd
Aisme Dddd 23 orë më parë
@WolfinFlux thank you 🙏🏾
Luey Sixty-six
Luey Sixty-six 6 ditë më parë
@WolfinFlux I'm sorry, but that's the bare minimum that any wife should do. She did take a public oath on day one of your marriage to remain loyal "for better or worse". Now, I get it..too many modern women monkey branch the second they see anything better..and, especially if their husband has fallen on hard times. But that is in no way equal to the act of willingly laying one's life down for another. "No greater love", says the Bible, "a man can have, that he would lay down his life for another". Just because she didn't leave you when you thought about going part time...that isn't even in the same hemisphere as dying for someone...
Luey Sixty-six
Luey Sixty-six 6 ditë më parë
@Blu Musix You say he should get to eat lead because: "war" ?? Is that your argument...?
WolfinFlux
WolfinFlux 6 ditë më parë
@Aisme Dddd Just talk it out as best as u can. Always have everything out in the open even if it may be hurtful. More u hold stuff in, more likely that one of u will explode and it'll end up being worse than of I had talked it out b4 hand
Praveen Rathnayake
Praveen Rathnayake Ditë më parë
Nothing but facts spoken
Hannah Murphy
Hannah Murphy Ditë më parë
I'm trying to be open to this but I'm not quite understanding the point in the video. What is considered a necessity rather than a want? I did just break up with someone because I felt uneasy or my gut didn't feel right. Also, communication was pretty bad. After, it felt right even though I loved and was in love with him. I'd appreciate any insight.
Pharoess
Pharoess 4 ditë më parë
Everything Aba said was 100%truth..
A.O. Skurtt
A.O. Skurtt 5 ditë më parë
wow, these are some of the people I dislike seeing on these type channels and unfortunately meninist channels kinda bring them, theres a lot of actual women haters who may not even be aware that end up over here. dude donated 100$. a hundred dollars. to tell a woman that shes like a brand new car, once driven the value decreases. Maybe the analogy has some truth to it, sure. but saying that shit does nothing but put women down. I agree some women have too many demands sometimes, but its definitely not all, and you absolutely dont have to trash talk one side to support the other lol. its not us vs them, we're all people, and we should be better than that. i HATE seeing those kind of people around. even when it does have some truth to it how do you not realize saying that is just plain degrading to women and makes you look like a huge misogynistic asshole. A hundred dollars, man. to degrade women, blows my mind. Im pointing out one specific person but I see that kinda shit all the time on these channels that support mens, and it just makes me sick. Please do better
A.O. Skurtt
A.O. Skurtt 14 orë më parë
It's in the video in the beginning, at the bottom is says how much they donates
anjali tiwari
anjali tiwari 17 orë më parë
100 dollars? Do you have any proof to back it up?
Jose Veloza
Jose Veloza 6 ditë më parë
so... How many of them chicks you ended up with that night?
ian jwan
ian jwan 7 ditë më parë
hey!!!Morena!!!!
tawhid raiyan Tajbi
tawhid raiyan Tajbi 7 ditë më parë
Aba, beware of earrape intros or at least warn beforehand, please.
Mohamed Ahmed
Mohamed Ahmed 8 ditë më parë
284k view but only 18k likes?
heartlin
heartlin 8 ditë më parë
I am a 25 years old, from India and I have never seen a single divorce couple, cause men and women put the family and kids first before themselves.
T E
T E 8 ditë më parë
In the words of Atmosphere "I'm trying to find a balance, I'm trying to build a balance."
littlenothing10
littlenothing10 8 ditë më parë
My advice on marriage: settle on your wants, not your needs. Aba really is preaching, there is such a difference between what you want and what is actually needed to keep a marriage alive. The only things you need in marriage are support, respect, and communication imo. You need someone to build a life together, who you can rely and depend on and who you want to be in your corner. If you’re demanding any more than that in a relationship as your requirements to tie the knot, girl you ain’t ready to be married😭😂 it isn’t just a lovey dovey fairytale that’s going to be perfect all the time or else you have to divorce, it’s your LIFE it’s going to have ups and downs, if you’re not ready to take the bad with the good, maybe marriage isn’t for you.
smoker
smoker 9 ditë më parë
Western wahmen want a wedding for the narcissistic attention.....NOT the struggle that is marriage.
neilorourke71
neilorourke71 9 ditë më parë
Life is about learning to accept your mortality. One day you will no longer walk this earth. And still being able to live out your story even when you know the end. And peoples' reactions generally boil down to two decisions: either they become Nihilist/Hedonists- nothing matters so why not fulfill every base desire that enters my mind- or they accept their fate and live life to the fullest- they give themselves to a higher purpose, realizing that their existence on this plane is not the beginning and end of 'them'. the former is a life riddled with denial, fear, anger and pettiness. The latter is the essence of freedom. For a marriage to work you both need to understand this principle, and realistically you need to have the revelation at the same time. The longer you're with someone the more likely it is that your frames of mind will match one another.
Abana nado
Abana nado 9 ditë më parë
that sound is annoying as F and so loud :(
Michael James
Michael James 9 ditë më parë
She basically said it! Women get married, to get divorced.
Michael James
Michael James 9 ditë më parë
Short answer... No.
OhMotherland
OhMotherland 10 ditë më parë
You guys are heaven sent! Thank you for all the value you provide. People are living in fairy tale these days and you guys are giving reality checks. I just hope that everyone does self reflection and hopefully benefits from this wisdom. Your videos are gems!
Kareem t
Kareem t 10 ditë më parë
1st I have to like you, and in order for me to like you (born biological female/then your personality) 2nd. You got to put the time in to get me to love you 3rd you have to put in the effort (labor) to make the relationship work 4th. All that leads to a marriage and everything else is bs/ weathering the storm makes for tighter bonds
Kareem t
Kareem t 10 ditë më parë
I'm at 19 years so far and it wasn't easy
Abi Ade
Abi Ade 10 ditë më parë
I think I’m very lucky to be in such a loving household. My family isn’t rich but we’re not poor. I’m still a teen but Weve had our tough moment and our wins. And we’ve always stayed close. But what’s the most inspiring thing in front of me that I find I’m so lucky to have is my parents themselves. Such an amazing example of what a couple should be like. They have tiffs and disputes almost EVERY DAY. But that doesn’t matter. Because they understand the importance of staying together and appreciating each other. I know it’s not a lot, but in my 16 years of living, I’ve never met a more responsible and dutiful person than my father. It’s insane, how he turns every hard moment in his life into a moment of commitment and learning. And I think what helped with that is also the values he was taught, since were Nigerian.
Jay
Jay 11 ditë më parë
Do you guys smoke the ganja? I’m really trying to catch a quick cyph with you guys and have eye opening convos. No we don’t need weed to do that but I take it as a social thing. Instead of beer and talks it’ll be smoking and convos lol…. Bless y’all. Y’all are very outspoken. Great stuff and keep up the amazing work
nwg
nwg 11 ditë më parë
turn off those damn notifications
Zahara0000007
Zahara0000007 12 ditë më parë
A big reason women pick wealthy men is that its a defense mechanism for insecurity. Ex: 'If he cheats, okay, but I'm still rich.' It IS sad that there are men in this world who will hurt you. But, I don't think that being on a journey of finding 'the right one' means you can avoid the wrong ones. In the words of my oxford english professor, "having a happy ending depends on if you add another page."
dis kid
dis kid 12 ditë më parë
isn’t it essentially cultural differences in the significance of religion in the given society and thus the respect that the institution of marriage is given, these days it’s a party to most folk instead of an actual religious ceremony, I’m not religious so I’m not getting married, all these atheists getting married is why divorce is increasing, coupled with female empowerment ygm
alicia nicole
alicia nicole 12 ditë më parë
Us Americans are so focused on ourselves, China is having the same problem.
alicia nicole
alicia nicole 10 ditë më parë
@Mayro I was just giving an example
Mayro
Mayro 10 ditë më parë
Why China specificaly? What about the rest of the world?
Mega Mo
Mega Mo 12 ditë më parë
6:07 City in the sky by Ye
diypictures
diypictures 12 ditë më parë
Aba was speaking a foreign language to them, lol. That was way too much logic, reason and critical thinking for people who lived their entire lives doing what they felt was right.
anjali tiwari
anjali tiwari 17 orë më parë
Yeah😁
Aleah Williams
Aleah Williams 12 ditë më parë
Thanks for having this discussion. Although I’m 24 and feel like I have rational perception on life, this was something that I needed to hear.
Cantetinza17
Cantetinza17 12 ditë më parë
I am divorced and for me Marriage and staying married was very important and I made sure my husband new that. I told him if you believe in divorce don't marry me. He swore that we wouldn't and yet here I am divorced. Over pettiness. Everyone is down during the Good, but people Peace Out during the Bad. I was married for 14 years and with my husband for 20 and it was WORK, but if you are not someone who is willing to always be putting in the work then don't get married.
Magdalene
Magdalene 12 ditë më parë
How come he ( Aba) is not married yet has soo much to say about marriage?
Valentin Yves Justin Cheval
Valentin Yves Justin Cheval 12 ditë më parë
"Some have time to learn" - man, women don't have time, don't have reason to learn or any incentives. You have no idea how bad it is.
Valentin Yves Justin Cheval
Valentin Yves Justin Cheval 12 ditë më parë
God this ping is SO annoying.
Salem Igoni
Salem Igoni 13 ditë më parë
What’s the outro song
Omar Bali
Omar Bali 13 ditë më parë
"people get married, to get divorced, here", translation : I want that alimoney.
Omar Bali
Omar Bali 12 ditë më parë
@Cantetinza17 I might move out then xD, but the concept of alimoney just baffles me. Child support I can understand but alimoney....
Cantetinza17
Cantetinza17 12 ditë më parë
Not if you live in HI there is no such thing as alimony only if you did not work at all can you get that.
chicken muffins
chicken muffins 13 ditë më parë
im 18 and all i want to do is get married and have kids. women today are all about careers and shit
chicken muffins
chicken muffins 13 ditë më parë
women like this would say they dont need a man but they will regret notgetting married when they are old and alone
luna
luna 13 ditë më parë
I’m hispanic, from Colombia, I have been living in America for a couple years now. i’m 20 years old now and my parents have been married for 26 years now. I love how they mentioned that in our countries, it really is a community event when people marry. It’s the merging of two families not just two people. I can’t really explain why our divorce rates are lower, but people really learn to stick together here.
Vicki M
Vicki M 13 ditë më parë
Me and my partner have been though a lot. With my sudden disabilities and my son being born with servers autism we’ve had. A lot of ups and downs,but we chose to alwasy stick together. Sometimes you fall out of love but when you stick to it and stay with your partner as a team you learn to love again and have true appreciation and peace in you relationship knowing your strong and someone will stick it out with you to the end of your life. It’s a security that you only ever get if you have the strength and patience to stick to the person you started a family with.
bobby Seasons
bobby Seasons 13 ditë më parë
No. Lol. Short answer. Keep your sanity. Travel and do other things. You can't marry a dolled up fickle and self absorbed human being.
jeremy lar
jeremy lar 13 ditë më parë
Nope that’s why White guys love Asian women.
Jonathan Thomas
Jonathan Thomas 13 ditë më parë
Phenomenal video
elletwo
elletwo 13 ditë më parë
I've been with my fiancé for 11 years. He proposed last year. We got lucky. We went to middle school together, happened to go to the same college, and ended up at the same dorm freshman year. I feel grateful that he set the tone of our relationship from the start (even before we started dating) that we had to have direct and honest communication with each other. It's such a strong foundation to have. No matter what is said, or how it feels when something is said to you, you have to acknowledge that the intent is to keep to that original promise, and the willingness to keep to that promise comes from a place of love. Communicating with people is hard, regardless of your relationship status. The value of putting in the effort to be on the same page with someone is definitely underrated.
elletwo
elletwo 13 ditë më parë
Social engineering really is a bitch. Hollyweird creates a fantasy land, somehow it becomes a standard, and then it permeates through culture and we become more of a mess.
KiKi
KiKi 14 ditë më parë
Arrange marriages and no sex before works speeds the marriage process up .
Inas Hyatt
Inas Hyatt 14 ditë më parë
In a good amount of these non western marriages, women have next to no rights because they are living in their husband's family home, are unable to make enough money to leave, and the courts tend to side with the men. I grew up in a muslim community in California, and would often hear stories where the wife and/or children are being abused and the wife cannot leave because it will shame the family and she is financially dependent on the man. Does Aba even know how to research a topic and be able to come to an educated conclusion, or does he take his own anecdotal experiences as facts.
Edward Miller
Edward Miller 14 ditë më parë
Does anyone know how to get the full interview with that group?
Rayden God of Thunder
Rayden God of Thunder 14 ditë më parë
The young lady that said divorce is the goal is right on point.
William Arrington
William Arrington 14 ditë më parë
Message for both of you. I'm a 60 year old Black man. Your videos are amazing. Although there is a generation gap, your constant views on self responsibility, being responsible for your actions is so on point. The two of you are wise beyond your years. Keep the content coming.
James Clark
James Clark 14 ditë më parë
this nigga preaching the gospel 🙌🏿
Jo McGibbon
Jo McGibbon 14 ditë më parë
‘You had my back’ … why am i crying yo
Skeletal Pirate
Skeletal Pirate 14 ditë më parë
Too paraphrase/quote Andre 3000: "They say nothing lasts forever so what makes love the exception?"
Foxy Chariot
Foxy Chariot 12 ditë më parë
🐐
Skeletal Pirate
Skeletal Pirate 14 ditë më parë
I'm a young man and idk, at this time I don't feel like I ever want to be married. Kids yeah, but maybe in the future this opinion will change. I just seen too many men I admire get torn in half in ugly divorces. I also feel like I can just be with a person without officially getting married. I know there are financial benefits to being married but is it really worth it?
Lani K
Lani K 13 ditë më parë
children are a bigger commitment than marriage itself though, and it will lead to a similar relationship as marriage. Marriage itself is about security within that relationship. If you can't see yourself with someone forever, maybe don't have child with them because it will still end up with co-parenting with them forever. But if you still don't like the idea of marriage, try adopting. I've seen some older people who didn't want to get married or stress about co-parenting so they adopted and their children are amazing and loved. And they are much happier.
ADAL-game
ADAL-game 15 ditë më parë
True, going through shit in a relationship is rewarding, your alot closer.
Laura Rowland
Laura Rowland 15 ditë më parë
Aba SAID THAT!!!!!!!
LEE HWAK
LEE HWAK 15 ditë më parë
Preacher ain't soft...he's an experienced person, man and dad. I remember he once said in a video that some times, in a relationship, weather it be a frienship or a romantic one, it is better to shut the fuck up and not say what's on your mind cause the relationship in worth more than that moment of (you know when you feel like you've emptied your mind). So yeah, thanks preach 🙏🙏
Cagon415
Cagon415 15 ditë më parë
I've never even considered marriage. A lot of the woman I have encountered dated or otherwise are too selfish to be loyal to anyone. I just don't trust them.
cre8gnr8nrg
cre8gnr8nrg 15 ditë më parë
My ex was an incredibly great fit in every aspect except for sexually. Since she moved 2.5 years ago I’ve gotten what we had lacked in other experiences but was missing so many other aspects. Life isn’t perfect but there will be good fits and at times that kind of “settling” isn’t a step in the wrong direction as happiness is important. Our sexual experiences weren’t bad they just weren’t as exciting as past ones but still a beautiful thing.
Phillip Strong
Phillip Strong 15 ditë më parë
The majority of western women are not marriage material anyway... just ask the average woman what's the longest relationship she's been in ESPECIALLY if she is young it's gonna be anywhere between 1-3 years and then you if ask them how long have they been single for? you'll get a number that's even higher and we all know a lot of single women have high body counts making them unable to bond with a man in the long run so it's kinda pointless to seek marriage nowadays in western society, especially when they have no wife training and or was raised by a single mother.
Nipstur LLC Brands
Nipstur LLC Brands 15 ditë më parë
No dark skin women in this interview !
Kelly Thompson
Kelly Thompson 15 ditë më parë
I really enjoy yalls videos! Both of you guys always speaking the truth! Women live in this world where they think they want a relationship with no conflict. But in reality that's not what they really need. At the end of the day they don't need a man that's going to emotionally coddle them constantly. They need a man that they can reach for when the wolfs are at the door. Sometimes that doesn't come in the most perfect package but, atlteast you know someone is there to protect you at the end of the day. Alot of these issues have been in recent years with the abolishing of gender roles.
Mr Summons
Mr Summons 15 ditë më parë
Women today place more value on money than family and rearing. Living a normal simple life is repulsive to most modern women.
Angel Rose
Angel Rose 14 ditë më parë
Society is capitalist 👀 no one wants to be homeless in the name of love especially in a pandemic
DonReality
DonReality 15 ditë më parë
The root cause is "Irresponsibility and an endemic rise and existence of Narcissism
Itskyuubi23
Itskyuubi23 15 ditë më parë
honestly aba thank you for going on that show and teaching instead of shaming and blaming, i really wish they took more lessons from the two of you and used them to better there podcast
Farras08 1989
Farras08 1989 15 ditë më parë
Preach is so wise when it comes to relationships
The Blackfox
The Blackfox 15 ditë më parë
Its not that we hate women, we just are frustrated by a lack of self awareness from them. Men need to take back our responsibility, be good, honest and try to be a good father
Patrick McCarthy
Patrick McCarthy 15 ditë më parë
The more I watch this the more I realize my girlfriend is wife material.
Mayro
Mayro 10 ditë më parë
Maintain! That quality is hard to find these days.
Ángelito
Ángelito 15 ditë më parë
The Italian girl nailed part of it: People get married to get divorced. In other words, WOMEN get married to get divorced. They do this because they know they can take your shit and keep getting paid by you after they have taken your shit. I've never been divorced, but I'm savvy.
Typical expert
Typical expert 15 ditë më parë
There is no true love in the western country anymore everyone wants something that benefit them selves
Ethonos KJED
Ethonos KJED 15 ditë më parë
What up cis-gendered niggas
Lester
Lester 16 ditë më parë
You should've dropped that mic brotha.
Ugly Luxe
Ugly Luxe 16 ditë më parë
The way my husband held me when the doctors told me there was nothing more that could be done for my dad made me fall back in love with him and love him more - just his presence, touch and strength in that one moment.
Christopher Diaz
Christopher Diaz 16 ditë më parë
This chick's will hear this in one ear out the other
Neon Lighter
Neon Lighter 16 ditë më parë
Personally, I don't have a problem with "settling". However, just wondering, is it a bad thing that I don't want kids?🤷
Neon Lighter
Neon Lighter 13 ditë më parë
@Lani K yeah, that is very true for sure. Thanks btw
Lani K
Lani K 13 ditë më parë
I wouldn't say so, just find someone who also doesn't want kids, not someone that will settle for not having children because those people usually have resent later on in life. It's very uncommon that people who want kids or don't change 180 for the other opinion.
Enigmatical Jedi
Enigmatical Jedi 16 ditë më parë
TRANSLATION: Are NON-Westerners built to subjugate women and FORCE them into a perpetual marriage that they are culturally and societally forced to remain in? Yes Aba... thank you for letting your prejudice show. You start with the FLAWED premise that marriage is in itself a goal to be sought and that ANY means of attaining it and keeping it for a long time is therefore acceptable. So for you to compare liberal westeners with non-western cultures where the concept of marriage is essentially a jail sentence you are not "allowed" to get out of (where you have no resources to get out of, where your "culture" socially ostracizes ONLY THE WOMEN if you dont stay married no matter what an asshole he is), is absolutely disgusting What the fuck is it with people like you and Myron? You follow this religion which treats women as second class citizens and you DARE to talk about whether "westerners" are built for marriage? Maybe we should ask the question... Are Muslim's built for making marriage just like the slavery of their culture? Absolutely fucking YES. I have watched the two of you constantly say that you were told not to marry westerners, to only find a "good woman" (ie a dumbass slave) in your own culture. If those words came out of the mouth of anyone else they would be accused of racism & bigotry... yet somehow you can say that and its ok? Fucked up man... completely fucked up. Its the 21st fucking century. We live in a GLOBAL world. Race LITERALLY doesn't exist (culture & race used to be tied together due to geographical isolation), and culture NO LONGER is tied into your religious beliefs... so stop carrying it the fuck forward. Religion is THE MOST ridiculous concept in existence... that people in the modern world still believe in fucking fairy tales is staggering. The definition of "delusion" is the belief in things that are not real, and it is considered a mental disorder when it impacts on your daily lives... and here you are with your ENTIRE LIFE controlled by this delusional belief. Sick and tired of these mentally delusional religious sad cases who constantly push their fairy tales on other people
Strijk Spray
Strijk Spray 16 ditë më parë
Signing a contract tot the state, that mandates me to loose half my shit when she done? OHHOHOO HELL NOOHHWWHOOHWW..
Primate Behavior
Primate Behavior 16 ditë më parë
Settling should be seen as Jackpot.. not.. giving up..
foos don't cry
foos don't cry 16 ditë më parë
This applies to probably everything but definitely in relationships, to make em work whatchu really need is balance.
Malicious Toes
Malicious Toes 16 ditë më parë
What's with the periodic fire alarm? It's hard to hear anything when it happens.
Hmbleman13
Hmbleman13 16 ditë më parë
Settling has become a bad word. The problem is people's perspectives are so screwed up. Between TV/Movies/Social Media/Porn. People have this inflated idea of what a happy life is. There is a reason why so many celebrities are addicted to drugs, O.D. and commit suicide. Having everything doesn't mean that you are going to be happy. If you have an hole in your heart or soul, no amount of stuff will fill it. Take it from someone who watched their Mother who tried to do that. Throwing away good men like my Dad for the next thing, because she thought it would be better.
Son Kibiro
Son Kibiro 16 ditë më parë
Settling doesn't even have to be humbling yourself having a loving family and a warm house doesn't mean you need to slow down and stop yourself look at athletes yeah a lot of them have rushed marriages or failed ones or whatever but you can't ignore the ones who have happy lives and families all while still being out there on the tracks or the courts or in the ring every day settling into a home a family and a marriage isn't the same as slowing down and winding down and stopping your dreams or early retirement or whatever
Ethan Montgomery
Ethan Montgomery 16 ditë më parë
Ain’t mad all your dates are mail order brides
WiZZy
WiZZy 16 ditë më parë
No pun intended, but Aba is PREACHing.
My Rocketman Journeys
My Rocketman Journeys 16 ditë më parë
What about platonic couples or asexual couples (both couples do not desire sex within a marriage)? What do you think about platonic marriages?
Ethan Hendricks
Ethan Hendricks 16 ditë më parë
This is the most wholesome and almost the best episode I've watched
Kuraido
Kuraido 16 ditë më parë
Nonsense, divorce is rampant in Italy.
Classic Ruby
Classic Ruby 17 ditë më parë
In my honest opinion and observation, the thing that makes us fail at marriage is that both men and women feel entitled to everything, think they should give nothing in return except for what they FEEL like or THEY decide is necessary, and nobody understands concepts they throw around as key deal breakers for them. Until both men and women recognize that the way that the other operates and prioritizes and requires is equally important and a necessity to fulfill, just as your own must be understood and met, people will continue to fail at relationships and marriages in droves. Of course, this Olympic Blame And Pain Olympics Games does nothing but fuel the fires of dysfunction because everybody is so busy trying to prove why they are right and why their complaints are valid that they are unable and unwilling to remotely acknowledge and validate the issues of the other side. The people who succeed in this marriage thing long ago figured out that they gotta put their focus and blame squarely on self and adequately assess and understand the person that they are or were with and be able to frame every particular scenario as "it takes two to tango" on a deep and realistic level that ALWAYS includes far more self accountability than blame.
ChipsAhoy 322
ChipsAhoy 322 17 ditë më parë
aba and preach are chill asf
Egoy
Egoy 17 ditë më parë
Being a husband/wife is a role. When a guy says "I want a wife", it's a lot different from someone who says "I want to be a husband". A lot of people just want a partner but don't want to act like a husband or a wife. They go into marriage still acting like a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Then they get hit with a reality that it's not a "happy ending" but more like "a new beginning" then they get divorced.
Jordan Powell
Jordan Powell 17 ditë më parë
well said sir well said, 100% truths
Captain America-Man
Captain America-Man 17 ditë më parë
Italian girl "You get married so that you can get divorced" other thots in the room "Dammit bitch, don't be spilling our secret strategy!"
andy daniel
andy daniel 17 ditë më parë
I agree with aba 100%, it takes experience and maturity to evolve you have to adapt in life and in relationships to be contented
Onikokoro
Onikokoro 17 ditë më parë
Marriage is a slave trade it should be abolished or atleast remain a religous thing. They need new rules and names for non religious marriages. Marriage works well when one partner owns the other partner and the role of the owner is obligated to take care of the one owned and any offspring they make/adopt, and the owned partner takes a submissive role place and let the owner lead. That is not something we westeners want right now the both want ownership roles. sure there are cases where the it works but at large it doesnt.
Onikokoro
Onikokoro 15 ditë më parë
@Andrew Berndtwomen in marriage where owned by there husbands up into the 1950's head and master laws where in place saying the men had final say on everything! Marriages are made on the concept that men owned the women they where married to so they could beat and rape there wives legally. In the 1960's it was rectified. But divorce rates went up because marriages where not built with love in mind it's a new concept. They need to abolish marriages and make new rules so to help are western progressive society
Onikokoro
Onikokoro 16 ditë më parë
@Andrew Berndt explain how it's backwards
Andrew Berndt
Andrew Berndt 16 ditë më parë
This is the most backwards thinking
Glass Moth
Glass Moth 17 ditë më parë
That high pitched diiiing is not for me today lol.
tinyer3
tinyer3 17 ditë më parë
I watched the podcast, and it depressed me because Aba spoke Truth, and truth so strong that it captivated everyone. They all agreed, they all listened intently, and understood what he meant. But 15 minutes later, all that truth went to the trash, and everyone went back to the same ideas they had before. God help us all, man.
Damuskinous
Damuskinous 17 ditë më parë
I got the job back in 2000 and hope to never get a 401k. And your right when it's time to get in them trenches I know for a fact I'm not going in alone, but with someone ready to fight for what's ours.
Ahmed Hassan
Ahmed Hassan 17 ditë më parë
Damn I can truly say this channel made me more mature, humbled, smarter and a better person/thinker
Grandmaster Anto
Grandmaster Anto 17 ditë më parë
If one more phone goes off with that loud ass ring im throwin my phone out
Miranda A
Miranda A 17 ditë më parë
This is nearly unwatchable with the phone notifications going off holy shit. Who’s the narcissistic dickwad that needs to leave that shit on during what’s supposed to be a discussion 😒
ryan orr
ryan orr 17 ditë më parë
feminism is what tears marriages apart.
Virusphere
Virusphere 17 ditë më parë
Fresh&Fit is such a stupid channel hosted by 2 dislikable morons. Still cannot understand why you went there....
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